Navigating Icebergs of Conversation
“You’re ready for it this time. The topic, the phrase, the theme, the comment winds its way to you for response. Mindful of its dangers like the innocent tip of an iceberg that can be easily navigated, you answer confidently. Good – smooth waters so far as you ease yourself into the stream of conversation. Out of the blue, an emotional reaction assails you; you thought you had avoided the brunt of the iceberg but it’s facing you head on. Too late to deke it out, you crash into the throes of a testy discussion. Unexpected, unwanted, and unpleasant, you experience the stormy blast of a contrary opinion that will not surrender – ever. You navigate its absolute rigidity until finally retreating into your lifeboat of personal sanctuary where peace finds you. Once centered and fortified, you will emerge again, ready to light up other icebergs on your path.”
To your Happiness,
Kita