“Are you in-between? In between jobs, a relationship, midway through a renovation, deciding where to vacation, what to wear to the party, having dessert or not, trying a new restaurant or sticking with the tried-and-true one? Maybe it’s not finishing a book – a first for you; are you scared about calling off the wedding when you know s/he’s not the one?  People, situations – your life – seemed to be such a sure thing before. Three, five years...

“Not to worry – you’re not spiraling out of control, but you are spiraling. Straight upwards taking in new sights and sounds as they reveal themselves to you. You are also extending outwards sideways as you ascend. It seems this circular motion is causing you to revisit people and situations – Déjà vu – you could call it that. Certainly, spiraling where you are moving both vertically and horizontally simultaneously can bring about a dizzying...

“Some of you may remember Olivia Newton John’s “Let’s Get Physical”, a homage to working out in the 80s – with leotards, leg warmers, head bands in popsicle colours part of the scenery. No worries here: this gym uniform is not required; however, the physical part may just save your sanity – your sense of balance as new light energies, unstable global events and weather continue to bombard our world. The latter is part of humanity’s shift into a...

“Oops…the schedule has changed…whether person, place or thing, shuffling things around is the name of the game these days. The long-held appointment is postponed yet again. An awaited visit from a dear friend on hold due to illness. Unexpected thunderstorms nix the golf game. Fifteen chairs are needed; ten are available. Can someone pick up some?  The list was followed to a “T”; unfortunately, batteries were left off the roster. Go back? Make...

“Sometimes it’s hard to find the balance between pleasing yourself and pleasing others. Having been taught that sacrifice, frugality and self-denial are cornerstones of the good person – of a good, disciplined life – one can easily conclude that self-indulgence, extravagance and celebrating abundance are therefore the black sheep of human behaviour. How sad that you need to give something away to “feel good” about yourself when, in fact, you...

“Is it not a miracle that an appointment is cancelled when you don’t feel like going; when you find a quarter on the floor to make up the change you need for coffee; when a car pulls out just as you are looking for a parking spot; that a person happens to open the door when your arms are full; that the museum is free on the day you visit; that the clouds clear for your afternoon picnic; that you spot a safety pin to fix the hem of your dress;...